Testimonials

Coaching

Sisters:

I entered a 3-month container with Ella in the hopes of acquiring something of myself that wasn’t my truth, at the time not realising or perhaps not being able to face it. It was with her sincere guidance and the open space that she held with so much intention, where I surrendered into a heartfelt acceptance of my sexuality and my desires (being of low desire/asexuality spectrum). My whole life I had been resisting my truest felt experience and the nature of Ella’s work has opened me up to a new path of understanding myself. With this, I have felt an immense sense of ease and flow in my life, particularly in my intimacy with myself. This process for me was an unraveling of lots of shame inside but throughout it all I was held in a such a beautiful way. I’m so very grateful I committed to myself and the discovery of my truth with the help of Ella. Thank you so much for being a significant mentor in my life. This process was a shedding of self to become more of who I am, and to honour all parts of myself.

Jess
1:1 Coaching 3-months

I came to Ella because I lacked confidence in my self and my sexual identity.

Ella has been so kind. She just oozes warmth and safety so I felt so comfortable to open myself up to really get the most out of our work together.

I have experienced such a shift in my mindset around how I look and feel about myself and how confident I feel to be intimate with my husband.

Thank you Ella for all you do!

Jordie
1:1 Coaching 3-months

Starting my journey with Ella was hands down the best thing I’ve done.

I came to Ella so nervous, scared, thinking there was something wrong with me and that I was completely broken as a woman and sexually. I have never been able to connect with myself, and to also then connect and share deep pleasure and intimacy with my partner. It was not only affecting my relationship but also my self esteem, I saw myself in such a negative light. My confidence in myself was so low, it seemed like I had convinced myself that I didn’t deserve the love and pleasure that I deserve as a woman. Then along came Ella!

Ella’s knowledge about sexuality, women, intimacy, is just beyond amazing. She is able to communicate and educate in such a powerful and understanding way. I realised I had grown up not knowing anything about women’s anatomy or my body in general. Ella made me feel comfortable to ask any question I felt I needed too and answered each one so perfectly.

Ella honestly gave me all the tools I needed to succeed. Her ongoing support throughout our sessions was incredible, she made me feel so supported, she was always there for me if I had a question anytime of the day. She is so incredibly knowledgeable and not only educates you, but also provides you with tools to then practice those techniques and bring them into your everyday life. She is so personable and loving in her approach, she gets to know you as a person and I honestly feel like I have just known her forever.

Ella, you have honestly changed my life. Looking back on how far I’ve come, I just couldn’t imagine I would be where I am today. I have learnt to love and appreciate myself, to start exploring my wants and needs, and also how to communicate this to my partner. I’ve also learn how to make sex fun and feel into these different energies, how to really start exploring all the beautiful pleasure that there is to be had!

I don’t feel broken anymore. I feel normal. And that is hands down all thanks to Ella. I honestly could not recommend her enough. What an amazing woman and coach!

Paige
1:1 Coaching 3-months

Ella is a real gem. So warm and so open. I felt so at ease working with her. I was so ready to dive in and become this sensual, sexual, embodied being all at once. Ella helped me to see that this is a process that takes time and helped me to focus on small ways to integrate more pleasure into my life. She met me where I was at. At times the things that came up for me were confronting and hard to sit with or work through and Ella was so patient with me and I felt very held by her throughout the journey. Ella helped me to realise that pleasure is a practice and something that I have to actively work on to be able to experience. I now understand that this is my work and for me, it’s slow work. And that’s okay. I’m very grateful for Ella and her support and hopefully with the tools she has given me I will someday be the sensual, sexual, embodied gal that I have been dreaming of. If you’re feeling stuck, like you want to connect more deeply with yourself (all of you) and want someone to support and guide you, Ella is the person for you

Sara
1:1 Coaching 3-months

I heard about Ella through a friend and started following her on Instagram. I loved watching Ella's stories and when I found out she was training to be a sex coach I thought it was something I would like to look into. I had never thought about seeing a sex coach but I was instantly drawn to Ella and wanted to learn more about myself and how to help my 11-year relationship which was in a bit of a rut at the time.

I was so excited and nervous to start the coaching with Ella but she made me feel at ease as soon as we had our first meeting. Ella is amazing at what she does and has helped me with my communication skills both in and out of the bedroom. This has done wonders for my relationship and I couldn't even imagine my sex life would be this amazing after being with someone for 11 years.

Ella gave me homework to do between our sessions which was always relevant to what we discussed in our sessions and has been so helpful for my growth.

If you are thinking about seeing a sex coach, I highly recommend Ella. She has an incredible energy and makes you feel comfortable straight away. Thank you Ella, you have helped me navigate my way through a difficult time in my life and I will be forever grateful for your love and support!

Jen
1:1 Coaching 3-months

WOW. Two months ago before I started my coaching with Ella I was feeling stuck. Stuck in my relationship, disconnected to my pleasure and feeling out of tune with my body and my voice. My confidence, especially in the bedroom was low and I felt as though there wasn’t much that couldn’t help me. I thought perhaps it was my partner, and that I needed to run away from it. That it just simply wasn’t working and our time as a couple was up.

But Ella has opened up SO many beautiful insights and opportunities to allow my relationship with both myself and my partner to flourish. I truly do feel like this coaching helped nurture and bring back the spark that I lost in my relationship. Each session we moved through a different block or avenue that I wanted to explore and by the end of it, I always felt so complete and reassured. Ella holds such a safe and supportive container, even through the online space, which I believe is a true testament to her energy and overall love and zest for this healing work. It really does feel like Ella is destined for this path.

Every conversation we had, I felt so seen and heard. I’ve never felt more safe to openly speak about sexual trauma’s from my past and my future desires. No stone was left unturned and every topic that had been originally discussed was always closed off with confidence and confirmation.

I am so excited and ready to use all of the tools that I’ve learnt from my two months of coaching with Ella into my relationship. Thank-you, thank-you, thank-you for doing this work and for witnessing ALL of me. You’ve helped me grow and have given me the tools I need to truly flourish.

Sophie.
1:1 Coaching 3-months

Brothers:

As a man on a journey to understand women and the feminine more I could not recommend The Art of Loving Women course more highly. Ella provided an amazing amount of knowledge in the field of female anatomy, the menstrual cycle, sacred sexuality and female pleasure! I was most impressed with Ella's capacity to understand and communicate what I needed most, based on where I was at in my journey. My time with her was worth its weight in GOLD.

Luke Laux
Art of Loving Women

Highly recommended for every human!!!

I have grown more into my own manhood than I have in the previous 4 years, due to the last 4 weeks of sharing in Ella’s health-carer perspective of womanhood, cycles and pleasures.

David
Art of Loving Women

Couples:

From the moment we met Ella her calm, sweet and easy-going nature made us feel at ease.

We felt comfortable in the safe container she provided for us to share our requirements moving forward in our relationship and sharing answers to thoughtful questions that prompted thinking of solutions that would work for us. We both felt so held and heard during the session and felt like the issues that we had were normal and workable. We now feel like we have the tools and invigorated hope that we need to move forward. Thank you Ella!

Sammy & Madeline
Couples Coaching - One-Off Session

Yoni Massage

Ella you provided the most safe sacred empowering safe. How we connected from the beginning of the session to be embraces, and to have everything explained in such detail was soothing. I loved the opportunity to ask questions, and you gave all the time needed, I didn’t feel rushed... I was able to share the blocks I was feeling, which was needed to fully surrender to the experience. I believe in you and your gift and also my worth to be able to fulling love my yoni

Since our session I have been able to really love my yoni, I have a better understanding of what she needs and allow her the time now having the understanding my yoni will show me when she isn't or isn't ready.

I have more sensation in my vulva and am experiencing the ability to orgasm with my partners...You have empowered me to share my needs and desires, and that it’s a good thing to ask for what I need and for my yoni when being intimate. I love her now and I love that she is mine and the magic she has.

All my reservations of being concerned what if I was turned on in the session ect weren't remotely a thing its so professional. I think every woman should invest in this once because knowing the changes that have occurred for me - they have been fully transformative and I've grown so much from this in knowledge and understanding my yoni

Thank you isn't fitting for what you do and have done and will continue to do for many women worldwide. You are a phenomenal woman and I believe in you and everything you stand for and are about!

Marisa

Ella held a very relaxed, sacred and safe space. Our time together felt healing and I'm left feeling a renewed sense of confidence in connection with my body and my pleasure. Her passion is evident and I appreciate Ella interweaving fundamental education during our time together. Thank you Ella for the work you do.

Sage

Ella provides a professional, safe and supportive practice. As someone very new to connecting with her yoni, I felt emotionally and physically safe being in a vulnerably raw space with Ella. The session led to personal awareness and growth. Ella constantly checked in on how I was feeling and upheld the most professional respect. A yoni massage (two words together that I previously had no meaning of) has now become an empowering self-care activity. After the session, Ella provided me with educational resources, as she said she would. I cannot recommend having a yoni massage by Ella enough, no matter what journey in life you are currently on.

Michelle

The yoni massage experience started a few weeks before even meeting Ella, her email and messages communicated prior to my appointment allowed me to really get clear on my intentions and surfaced some profound realisations and old memories during that time. I was able to share these with Ella, on top of any fears or concerns and she replied with compassion. Although I was nervous to experience such an intimate and personal experience, I felt completely comfortable and relaxed in Ella's presence. I was informed about the entire process, what to expect, and free to ask any questions throughout. The entire experience for me was gentle and nurturing, I discovered things about myself and my yoni that I had completely ignored. The work didn't end there, a few days later I had the most powerful self-love session that was prompted by Ella's journal questions and personal homework, it all pieced together and created a beautiful healing container, that is continuing and I am so grateful. Thank you Ella, you are gift to us xx

Hayley

Ella is an incredible practitioner who supported me through a really challenging time with care, warmth and sensitivity. Ella is an intuitive, deep space holder, knowledgeable and ensures you feel safe and supported throughout the entire process. Ella held a beautiful ceremonial space for the Yoni Massage with integrity and was trauma-aware – it was a truly transformative experience. Ella's Yoni Massage helped to unravel, process and release stored womb story that I didn't have access to before through bodywork - as well as learn and practice voicing my edges - my no's and yes's. I highly recommend Ella's work for a deeply healing, somatic and sacred journey.

Anonymous

I was really nervous to receive my yoni massage, I didn’t know what to expect as it was my first time. We grounded to begin with and the space felt familiar. Very womb like. Ella was also very gentle and welcoming and as we began our session I felt more and more at ease. The deeper we journeyed together, I noticed emotions come up and we navigated them together one by one. Just like chatting to a best friend. I learned a lot about myself. Or reminded myself that my body knows and it felt safe to be, receive and not return anything!

I am very grateful for Ella’s services and will take this with me moving forward.

Thank you!

Talia

Leaning in and trusting myself that I had found this safe place with Ella to explore my yoni was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made!

I’m so glad that I listened to my intuition, for so long I had questions that the internet didn’t satisfy. Breaking away from my intellectual mind to gift myself the experience of receiving and learning through touch. After taking a long break from clitoral stimulation I was ready to redefine my relationship with my yoni and pleasure. The beautiful space that Ella has created for her work felt so incredibly comforting and warming that I was able to open to the experience with ease in all of my vulnerability.

I learnt so much about about my yoni, where I had numbness that I hadn’t acknowledged and where I felt pleasure in areas I hadn’t before. Also re connecting with my breath, deeply
All supporting me on this beautiful journey of reconnection and trust with my yoni.

Thank you for Ella for such an unforgettable experience and such a shaping moment in my healing and self love journey.

Raphael

Ella creates such a beautiful and sacred space. I felt incredibly safe and supported to explore my body and sacred Yoni in a deeply personal way, in a space that was purely there for just me. Such a unique and transformational experience. A must for every woman.

Ayla

My yoni massage with Ella was an exceptionally pleasant and positive experience. Ella’s excellent communication and soothing presence helped me to feel relaxed and comfortable. It was a truly liberating and educational experience, which has changed my perspective and feelings about my yoni, and has helped me in honouring my yes's and no's.

Jenna

My yoni massage with Ella was such a nourishing and nurturing experience. I felt so safe and comfortable being guided through the process, knowing that Ella was supporting me every step of the way. I feel really grateful. The yoni massage helped me to soften, and that allowed healing to take place.

Erin

I've always wanted to experience a Yoni massage! I never really knew what to expect, except the obvious, but if I could sumarise it in one sentence, I would say it was absolutely divine!! I learned a lot about myself and my body from the guidance of Ella. I found it really interesting to discover what areas were numb, painful and super pleasurable. Ella is absolutely amazing and made me feel really comfortable as well as her beautiful little space - I literally felt like I had stepped inside of a womb! If you feel called to have a Yoni massage, definitely do it and I highly recommend Ella!

Jess

After doing some deep work within wanting to connect back to my pussy, I felt a call to connect with Ella and have my first yoni massage.

I didn’t really know what a yoni massage was, but I trusted, I was ready. I had known Ella briefly through our similar community, but instantly felt a safe comfort and connection.

The space Ella created felt so cosy and safe, I felt so ready to land into this space, with an open mind and heart. I am a mother of 4 babies and have a very busy mind, I felt anxious about switching off from all of that to be there and do this for myself, Ella sat with me and we did the most beautiful mediation together and I instantly felt the shift and my body softening.

Through the experience, Ella communicated so gently and I felt many sensations come up, I didn’t feel uncomfortable, my body felt ready to trust.

I learnt so much through the experience, I have only ever known pleasure through my clit, but I was able to feel parts of my pussy, that were so numb, slowly it’s like they were activated and I had sensation of pleasure, I could not believe that those parts of my pussy, felt pleasurable. I have rushed my pleasure so much, on my own and in my sexual relations and felt this was the birth of really opening up to pleasure in such a different way, a slower way, a more connected way.

When it was time to go internal, I started to remember, so many times, where I have had pap-smears in my life, internals, stretch and sweeps, and all the things that would happen in hospitals when having my babies, like checking if I was dilated. The memory attached to having something internal, was something I hadn’t thought of since, until it came up again for me during my yoni massage, it made me remember about how during internals, my cervix would be pulled down and forward as it was always so high up and the discomfort I felt. Through this internal part of the massage, I was able to really feel how much my body was saying no at times, but in the past I really wasn’t connected my body and trust process in the same way.

After the massage, Ella not only looked after me, but looked after little girl me, she made sure I was warm and comfortable and stayed in my bubble of bliss and reflection. I felt that in the time I laid there resting, I processed so much of what I allowed my body to go through, through hospitals and procedures, it took me quite a few days to process as I felt a lot of sadness around this, I felt tender.

I wanted to write this, to share with others, especially mothers, because it wasn’t a massage that was oh so relaxing, although some parts so pleasurable, but something so much more than this, it was able to help me experience things that had been stored in my body for over 12 years since having my first baby, and I really never had the opportunity to feel this and let it go, until I did this work with Ella.

When I booked this yoni massage, my intention was to feel comfortable, to break through some barriers I have of surrendering my body, but when it happened, my body naturally surrendered and it became something so much more, so much healing to be done and I truly believe the work that Ella is doing in this world, is life changing.

It was able to help me to trust that the choices I make now for entering this precious cave, is now only led by a whole body yes and nothing less, not for medical reasons, or protocols, but for me, to trust my womb and my yoni. My yoni is so full of power and guidance and this experience has shown me this. I have only really experienced the surface of pleasure and how excited I am now to explore.

I will be forever grateful, thank you.